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On Killing: The Psychological Cost of Learning to Kill in War and Society., By Lt. Col. Dave Grossman. BackBay Books, 366 pages.


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You will learn more about violence in the first 100 pages of this book than you will in decades of martial arts training. A gross oversimplification is to summarize the book as a discussion of man's innate resistance to killing a fellow human, the factors that can be manipulated to overcome this resistance, and the psychological consequences of such training. Many people's initial reaction may be that the subject matter is rather dark and morbid, and this is exactly the author's contention. Killing is a subject that we would rather avoid and ignore than understand, but you can only begin to deal with the subject once you understand it. Like the paradox in the martial arts, the book embraces violence, not in a perverted way, but with tempered respect for it in an effort to minimize its effects. The book is written with a tone of remorse for the killing rather than glorification, and finds the good in people who won't kill. Although military leaders responsible for winning a war may be distressed by the human’s natural resistance to killing, as a race we can – and should – view it with pride.  Perhaps, then, to truly understand the magnitude of our resistance to killing is also to understand the magnitude of man’s inhumanity to man when he does kill.

Lt. Col. Grossman's experience as a former army Ranger, psychologist, and historian gives him a unique, cross-disciplinary perspective, which yields a compelling and insightful argument. His writing style is just what you would expect from a competent army officer-clean, efficient and straight to the point yet intelligent and articulate. He rarely if ever bogs the book down in theory and describes things in laymen's terms, but he describes things in laymen’s terms without dumbing the subject down. Excerpts from other books and testimonials do well to illustrate the points and add to the book's smooth flow, although occasionally the author reuses the same quote one too many times. 

The book is robust and covers a great deal of related topics to paint a very thorough picture. Its basic premise is to address the problem that has plagued the military throughout most of its history-the majority of soldiers cannot bring themselves to kill the enemy, even when the enemy wants to kill them. While the book is obviously focused on war, it is concerned with the performance of the individual, which makes the book much more pertinent to the martial arts. Indeed, one can find a host of civilian self-defense and martial arts applications throughout: why the fight or flight concept of self defense is not entirely accurate, the effect of the wind of hate (the simple shock of someone wanting to harm you), factors of killing such as group mentality, creating emotional distance between you and the victim, how adrenaline affects judgment and behavior, and the dynamics of atrocities. Perhaps the most important, making the book worthwhile for this single point, is the discussion on the psychological costs and burdens of killing.

This is a subject that is neglected in almost all self-defense courses, despite having huge implications on the efficacy of such training. If one truly makes an effort to apply this knowledge to self-defense and martial arts, then a wealth of understanding can erupt: the importance of the bow in creating empathy, strategies in de-escalation or dealing with multiple attackers, and the mental preparation for self-defense, including a better understanding of the opponent's actions and behaviors. Furthermore, this information establishes guidelines to evaluate and discern whether future martial arts/self-defense information is sound advice or simply naïve opinion. We also see concepts discussed in the martial arts applied to mass warfare. For example, the age old paradox that "you must be willing to lose your life in order to save it" can also be applied to group leaders in battle. The discussion of more remote violence such as artillery and aerial bombings are not as immediately applicable to martial arts except to further illustrate and support certain points.

Its implications for martial arts and self-defense training and instruction are immense, but the book's impact is even further reaching. The discussion of psychiatric casualties makes us more understanding of the true horrors of war, and helps us reject the glamorized media image. The book gives you insight into some very basic, seemingly unimportant aspects of military life that have great significance to the bigger picture. Your opinion of violence on TV, in the media, and arcade games will change, and you will never look at a Vietnam veteran the same way again. At the very least, this book will force a re-evaluation and a serious self-reflection on these and similar issues-issues that a martial artist, by the nature of his/her hobby, should be well educated in. As one of the reviews on the back cover states, "this important book deserves a wide readership."

A post-script to this review. Once you have read this book, watch the movie Saving Private Ryan again. Unless you have experienced it for real, you cannot appreciate the brilliance and realism of that movie until you understand the theory found in this book. It is as though the script was written as an illustration of the text. Both are masterpieces. 


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